Dear Fair Housing Lady,
It’s summertime, and the living is easy, but here at our apartment community we have folks who don’t want to wear swimming suits and swimming trunks in our pool. I don’t mean that they want to go naked (thank goodness for small favors!) but they want to wear things like their clothes. Surely I don’t have to allow that (and besides, some of their neighbors think this is weird). Can’t I insist on acceptable swim attire?
Mindy the Manager
Well, the living may be easy, but managing an apartment community never is, no matter the season. And every summer we fair housing folks are asked this question. Keep in mind that there will be wide differences on “acceptable swim attire” based on cultural, religious and even modesty issues (and don’t we sometimes fervently wish that some would actually be more modest? Think thongs.). Anyone who does not want to swim in “traditional swim wear” such as swim suit or swim trunks needs to assure their landlord that they have an outfit that is dedicated to swimming and for their use in the pool. So, if I want to wear a sari, it is one sari for the pool, not just my regular everyday sari; if my sun-phobic husband wants to wear a tee shirt in the pool (and he will!), it is one tee for the pool, not just his street clothes. If the less-than-traditional swim outfit is likely to harm the pool (dyes that will excessively bleed in the water, fabrics that will yield a lot of fibers or threads) that issue can and should be addressed. If the neighbors find this weird, that is their issue, but wisdom would dictate you avoid discussions on the topic beyond “that apparel is one dedicated to that person’s use in our pool and we are fine with that.” As a postscript, I would like to add that I am very grateful that “acceptable swim attire” no longer requires the swimming cap of my girlhood – hat hair was bad enough, but then there was the circular indentation running around my head.
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